Most Christians talk a good game about being a part of a outward (community) focused church. But in the end, most choose to attend and give their tithe at a church that serves them more than they serve the community through it.
Christ called us to band together to spread His Good News and continue His Ministry to the world. That all breaks down when the church becomes a religious tool to simply help Christians do life.
Don’t be that guy/girl.
Find a truly outward focused church. Spread the gospel.
If you can’t find an outward focused church… Find a Bible teaching church and help them see the importance of reaching out.
This is the ministry of Christ.